Sixty questions. Answered alone. Talked through together.
Engaged, newly married, or thirty years in. Each of you answers privately, then you see where you align, where you differ, and the exact conversations to have next. One purchase covers both of you.
Secure checkout by Stripe. Either partner can pay. Linking accounts lets your partner see your scores and comparison after both of you finish. Private items stay hidden from your partner. Pastor sharing is a separate choice for each person.
Three steps, one honest week.
Create accounts
One each. Link them with a six-letter code so your answers stay private until you both finish.
Answer alone
Ten questions in each of the six covenant conversations. About twenty minutes. Your answers save when you select Save and continue at the end of each section.
Compare together
Your scores side by side, the biggest gaps, your shared weak spots, and the conversation to have first. Each person chooses whether to share their own results with a named approved pastor or mentor.
Not a verdict. A map.
Your own results
- A 0–100 score in each of the six conversation areas
- Your "start here" conversation with a Scripture and a prompt
- Private items visible only to you unless you explicitly include them for your chosen pastor
Where you align, where you don't
- An alignment score and the six areas ranked by agreement
- The eight questions with the biggest gap between your answers
- Questions you both scored low, so you can face them as a team
- A share link for your pastor or mentor couple
Before you buy
Can my spouse see my individual answers?
Your partner sees your six domain scores and the questions where your answers differ. A handful of sensitive questions (for example, "there is something I've been holding back") are never shown to your partner. Only you and, if you choose, your pastor can see those.
Do we both have to pay?
No. One purchase unlocks the assessment for both linked accounts.
What if we don't have a pastor?
You can work through the results with the book alone. If you'd like a pastor or mentor couple involved, your results page gives you a link to hand them and they can apply for free access to the pastor portal.
We have been married a long time. Is this for us?
Yes. The assessment asks which season you are in and words every question for it. Long-married couples usually find the biggest gaps in the conversations they stopped having years ago.
Is this a substitute for counseling?
No. It is a conversation starter grounded in Scripture. If anything it surfaces feels beyond what the two of you can handle, bring it to a pastor or a licensed counselor. That is not failure. It is faithfulness.